Monday, January 28, 2013

i am 50 years old married 7 years ago whit a good american guy thinking to started my life in usa. I'm from

i am 50 years old married 7 years ago whit a good american guy thinking to started my life in usa. I'm from
Buenos Aires a middle profesional clase and understand time ago how dificult is for me to fit in american cultura is a really a bad dream because the isolote life style . I was a professional in my country and losed also this identity. Anyway is a badmare, lifestyle,people, relationship,family, profession ,lenguage arepass in my life.. I'd like to find an activity that give me chance to be whit more european latin people whit my uniersitary eductation, but i wont to come back to study because my english is really bad as you can see it, will take 5 years and also I am not 18 years anymore to start that pass again. I'll like to find an activity related whit my humanities profession that give the freedom to manage my time and make money in mjy area orange county ca. I'd like to sell or teach something but because my basic english is dificult to have access to american people. how to live in to countries so diferent and be happy? I 'll I'd like to find independient activity .
Marriage & Divorce - 8 Answers
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1 :
Here is how I rank my women geographically: 1. Sweden 2. Argentina (you are the prettiest women in So. America) 3. Norway (wife is from here) 4. Japan
2 :
One thing i learned its never too late to go back to school and take some humanites classes and maybe start your own group of other nationalites
3 :
James, no way. Brazil should rank #1.
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Well, the number one thing that keeps immigrants feeling isolated is their fluency with English. So the first thing I would suggest would be to work on your language skills. May I suggest www.livemocha.com It is a free site that can help you learn many different languages, English included. It is also an online community, so there are plenty of people to practice with. Perhaps you should consider pursuing higher education on line as well. There are many online colleges, perhaps one of them might have a program that would suit your needs. Really to be a professional in the US, you need a college degree or you have to start on the ground floor when you are young and work your way up. At your age, furthuring your education is your best bet. If making money is not a priority, but staying active is, perhaps you should consider volunteering at a local museum, historic site, or a hospital.
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Teach something-- Spanish, for example. Take dance lessons (tango is the obvious choice if you don't already know it) to meet people who are interested in your culture. Organize tours to Argentina with a travel agency. Work with ex-pats or businesses hoping to relocate to Argentina. Work with import-export firms who are importing products to or from Argentina.
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You are as young as you want to be. You already have a good education from your country. You should go to the local community college and take an English as a Second Language Class. This really will help a great deal with communicating. You are still qualified to do what you were doing in your country. Translating it is what you need to work on. The class should be fairly inexpensive. Your english is better than you think it is. I understood you. Plus the counselors there will be more than happy to help you find what you want to do. Good Luck.
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Malena, not all Americans are as close-minded as the ones you've -probably- met. Some are actually very friendly and welcoming, and realize that not all people who come from South America (or other countries) are uneducated. Many are even willing to learn some Spanish and to take the time to teach you some basic English. You just need to meet people. Join a gym; there are some for women only, where you can meet other ladies that may share some of your interests. Enroll in some classes at your community college; you'll meet other students there and might make some good friends. Don't worry about your age; it's never too late to learn a second language. I hope you reach a point where you feel this is your home. I felt exactly the way you feel now when I was very little. I've lived in three different countries, speaking three different languages (which I knew nothing about before moving there). As a child and teen, it is also very hard to feel out of place. Keep those spirits up! You can make friends if you go to the right places to find them. Maybe you could volunteer to teach Spanish to a group at your local community college? Just an idea.
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If you are gorgeous I will pay for you to come here and be with ME!


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