Saturday, October 1, 2011

My family is abandoning me?

My family is abandoning me?
So I know that this is going to sound so sappy and dramatic but I really need some help. My dad moved out five months ago but he was still in the area and I see him as much as I see my mom so both parents are still a big part of my life. My parents, especially my dad, kept promising me that we would be closer than ever and that this would help us out in the longrun but I did not beleive him and it turns out I was right. My dad and mom are now dating different people, my dad is dating a girl I really don't like and she is really rich so I think my dad just might be dating her for her money which makes me upset because he was never that kind of a guy when he was married to my mom. Then he left for a month long trip to Argentina to climb Aconcagua and when he got to base camp that was his last chance to have cell phone reception and he called his girlfriend and my cousin but he didn't call me. This shook me up really bad and I am still wondering if I should be mad at him for it because he really hurt my feelings and I have been depressed about it ever since. Meanwhile my mom is dating a guy who is old enough to be my grandfather and he lives in a different state and I have only met him once before but now he is coming out to my moms house for Valentines Day and that has got me really mad too. Then my cousin came out to live with my dad for a few months and she is taking over his house and she is trying to take over my life and lecture me about being nicer to my dad's girlfriend and she is trying to change who I am and I don't even really know her and I just want her to go home. So with my dad in Argentina and he didn't even bother to call, and my mom engrossed with her bf and my cousin trying to take over my life I just feel like my entire family is betraying me and like I can't trust any of them anymore. I used to be really close with my parents but now I am more angry with them than I ever have been and I feel so useless and like a piece of c*** because obviously they don't care about me. Is it okay to be mad at them because they have ruined my life?
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1 :
If I were you, I would kill myself. It seems that no one cares about you, not even people on the internet. Please end your life right now before you hurt others. Your dad is happy, and you want to destroy his happiness? What kind of person are you? Please, die quickly...
2 :
Stop expecting things from your parents and you wont be mad at them
3 :
Sure
4 :
Have they? What are you, an aging jobless alcoholic? Nobody ruined your life yet, and there is nothing wrong with growing distant from your parents. It happens to everyone who grows up. We start having a lot of personal problems to worry about, maybe our own family at some point, and we end up seeing our parents maybe once every few months at best. Try not to get so strongly attached to your parents, because one day you will have to start caring about your own self.
5 :
Yes, dear, you life is being ruined by their irresponsible behavior. You did not state your age. If you are old enough get yourself a job,and I mean any kind of job and move out of their lives. It is better struggling that way than demeaning yourself the present way. Don't bother about their love for you as they have lost the old affection they used to have. Just don't feel hurt, of course it is easier said than done, but make an attempt to be independent and away from them both. Destiny will guide you through life. You are a strong willed girl and maybe you will find a loving and caring life partner who will always keep you happy. Just a little tolerance, dear and everything will be fine.




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