Tuesday, November 1, 2011

My gf doesnt want me to live with my other (girl) friend for the summer?

My gf doesnt want me to live with my other (girl) friend for the summer?
im a 21 year old guy and ive been dating my girlfriend seriously for like 4 months, but we've been together for almost a year. anyways, i go to school but live by myself in a medium sized apartment. i like kinda need some money for this summer and next year so i want to sublet a room in my apartment to my friend who happens to be a girl. i totally dont think of Alexis that way and it would be just for 4 months while school was out. my girlfriend is going to be going back to home to Argentina for the summer and shes told me shes not okay with me living with another girl while shes gone. how can i make her see its just for the money and that NOTHING is going to happen. i really love my girlfriend and she says she loves me too. why would she trust me?? ***id make $2000 this summer if she stays
Singles & Dating - 6 Answers
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1 :
um i dont blame her. don't you any other friends that are guys you could give the room to
2 :
DUDE! seriously think about what you are saying. Would you be alright with it if she was living with a man friend? you have to choose ,,, your girl or the money
3 :
its just a girls thing she might not trust you since you've only been serious for 4 months but unless you've given her a reason not to trust you she needs to just suck it up and understand that you don't have feelings for this other girl or you can find a guy roommate just to make her happy
4 :
NOTHING that you will say will make her change her mind. I know this for a fact. Sorry, but it's the truth.
5 :
I wouldn't want my boyfriend with another girl either. I would try to figure out how to make more money to live by yourself or if you have to, live with a relative. If that doesn't work could your girlfriend move in with you and Alexis? Would you rather lose money or your girlfriend that you love?
6 :
you could say that if you wanted to cheat you don't need to be living with the girl to make it happen... but that will probably get you into trouble lol. best bet is to just do everything you can to be reassuring about your relationship. over the summer when you're apart, write or call... email... however you keep in touch twice as often as you expected to. make sure she knows she's still your girl and you're thinking of her. my bf lives far from me, and i have no problem with him being around other girls because he always lets me know he loves me and is thinking of me. if you were to go more than a couple days without contacting her, she might feel upset. if you take the time to keep regular contact, she should be fine. it's probably gonna be a pain in the ass but spending 10 minutes to write her everyday will be worth it and she'll appreciate it.


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