hey guys question here i whant to be a pro.?
in argentina or mexico the thing is im 18 and im graduating in 08 after that i plan to go to argentina or mexico i now its hard because of my age but im a decent player im okay im a hard worker in my high school carrer in 4 seasons i scored 2 goal but played more of a defensive midfilder cause our othe midfierder was slow. in the summer team in 4 seasons i scored twenty goals as a mid. do you guys think i could still make it as a pro if i pay money to a team how much money do u think a team would whant.
Mexican Football (Soccer) - 7 Answers
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Practice Practice Practice. Im sure they'll be strict on a player your age. Lots of ppl join youth teams but u seem good ull make it if u practice
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dude itz hard i wanted to go pro im 20 when i was 16 i played in a tournaments for calsouth and coast nothing but scoutz there u should try looking into club soccer team youth teams a under 17 or under 19 itz pretty cool dude i know alot people who played there and went pro or go to mls tryouts itz hard to make it outside of the usa im training to go to a chivas usa tryout next year where do u live
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anybody can play pro in mexico, go there
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i don't know man it's pretty hard to make it in Mexico i played for escuela cruz azul named twice best defender of the season to only end up playing highschool soccer i guess i wasn't good enough but if you got the skills go do a tryout in Mexico city America holds open tryouts and some of 'em make it.
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well u should probably look for a smaller team first dont expect to make it with boca juniors, cruz azul, river plate, america, etc right away instead pick one of the smaller teams like atlas, arsenal de sarandi, and others i think u can make it and good luck
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good luck man...........
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well if ur decent then i dont think ur gunna make it sorry but u gotta be great and never quit anything. Even if ur great u still might suck @ss in the big leagues.
Monday, November 28, 2011
Monday, November 14, 2011
why wont my girlfriend trust me to live with my friend (f) for the summer? is she overreacting?
why wont my girlfriend trust me to live with my friend (f) for the summer? is she overreacting?
im a 21 year old guy and ive been dating my girlfriend seriously for like 4 months, but we've been together for almost a year. anyways, i go to school but live by myself in a medium sized apartment. i like kinda need some money for this summer and next year so i want to sublet a room in my apartment to my friend who happens to be a girl. i totally dont think of Alexis that way and it would be just for 4 months while school was out. my girlfriend is going to be going back to home to Argentina for the summer and shes told me shes not okay with me living with another girl while shes gone. but the thing is id get 2000 and s no one else is really going to be around in the summer, itd be nice to have some company. id never touch her though obviously. i like offered to use $500 of it to take my gf on a trip but that just made her angrier??? how can i make her see its just for the money and that NOTHING is going to happen. i really love my girlfriend and she says she loves me too. why would she trust me?? my gf is like really gorgeous and smart, but i think shes a bit jealous because alexis is also pretty. i dont want estella to freak out though. is it just not worth it? i dont NEED the money, but it would be nice to have extra cash
Singles & Dating - 6 Answers
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i kinda do see whwere your gf is coming from , it would be horrible to be far away from your bf and knowing another girl is therer with him , even if its nothing but friends! i guess shes worried soething will happen between you and the other girl! x
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she knows you better than you think
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Have you ever done anything that would make her think that you would cheat on her with this girl Alexis? Or have you been involved with her at any point in time? I think just the idea of you living with a girl that is not her, would be make any girl worry, not too mention she is going back home - so she will not be there. Your best bet is to try to reassure her - at this point you need the money, but she needs to know that this is all it is about. Offering to take her on a trip is nice - but you said you need the money, so putting it towards a trip would seem like you didn't to her. Try talking about it again, but when she gets upset, don't start defending yourself but really TRY to understand her reasoning. Good Luck!
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tell her that its jus for the money and nothing goin to happen if u can video chat with her while shes gone
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Bro, shes gona get confortable living with you. Next thing you know shes gona walk around the apartment in a bra and panties bouncing them titties. Thing after another and its gona get dirty. Lisen to your girl friend, a woman is always right.
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Well there has to be a certain amount of trust in a relationship, but there has to be a fair amount of consideration as well. Put yourself in her shoes. If you were going away for the summer, and she was going to sublet a room in her apartment to another guy - a guy who in which may choose to walk around in his boxers - share a shower, walk around in a towel, and may get to know your girlfriend on a personal friend level, see her every day, share meals... basically get the chance to live with her EVERY DAY when you are so many miles away..... how would you feel? She may not distrust you - she may distrust the girl and what she may try to pull. After all, who wants to get THAT phone call - you know... "Hey honey, I miss you - I love you too... we need to talk..." I don't feel she is over reacting at all. She is being honest with you and letting you know that she is uncomfortable with the situation. Even if nothing is going on, she will be sitting at home - worrying, fretting, and driving herself crazy just knowing that all it would take is one weak moment, one slip, one dream, one anything to make things totally change and destroy everything the two of you have. In my opinion, if you really cared and respected her, you wouldn't put yourself in a position like this. You are saying, "look at all the neat things we can do, a vacation and be comfortable, if I let this chick live with me!" And what she is saying is that she'd rather not take a vacation, and live on a strapped diet so long as you don't live with that chick. She loves you, she doesn't want to feel like she is sharing you. Show her you love her too, if you do.
im a 21 year old guy and ive been dating my girlfriend seriously for like 4 months, but we've been together for almost a year. anyways, i go to school but live by myself in a medium sized apartment. i like kinda need some money for this summer and next year so i want to sublet a room in my apartment to my friend who happens to be a girl. i totally dont think of Alexis that way and it would be just for 4 months while school was out. my girlfriend is going to be going back to home to Argentina for the summer and shes told me shes not okay with me living with another girl while shes gone. but the thing is id get 2000 and s no one else is really going to be around in the summer, itd be nice to have some company. id never touch her though obviously. i like offered to use $500 of it to take my gf on a trip but that just made her angrier??? how can i make her see its just for the money and that NOTHING is going to happen. i really love my girlfriend and she says she loves me too. why would she trust me?? my gf is like really gorgeous and smart, but i think shes a bit jealous because alexis is also pretty. i dont want estella to freak out though. is it just not worth it? i dont NEED the money, but it would be nice to have extra cash
Singles & Dating - 6 Answers
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i kinda do see whwere your gf is coming from , it would be horrible to be far away from your bf and knowing another girl is therer with him , even if its nothing but friends! i guess shes worried soething will happen between you and the other girl! x
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she knows you better than you think
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Have you ever done anything that would make her think that you would cheat on her with this girl Alexis? Or have you been involved with her at any point in time? I think just the idea of you living with a girl that is not her, would be make any girl worry, not too mention she is going back home - so she will not be there. Your best bet is to try to reassure her - at this point you need the money, but she needs to know that this is all it is about. Offering to take her on a trip is nice - but you said you need the money, so putting it towards a trip would seem like you didn't to her. Try talking about it again, but when she gets upset, don't start defending yourself but really TRY to understand her reasoning. Good Luck!
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tell her that its jus for the money and nothing goin to happen if u can video chat with her while shes gone
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Bro, shes gona get confortable living with you. Next thing you know shes gona walk around the apartment in a bra and panties bouncing them titties. Thing after another and its gona get dirty. Lisen to your girl friend, a woman is always right.
6 :
Well there has to be a certain amount of trust in a relationship, but there has to be a fair amount of consideration as well. Put yourself in her shoes. If you were going away for the summer, and she was going to sublet a room in her apartment to another guy - a guy who in which may choose to walk around in his boxers - share a shower, walk around in a towel, and may get to know your girlfriend on a personal friend level, see her every day, share meals... basically get the chance to live with her EVERY DAY when you are so many miles away..... how would you feel? She may not distrust you - she may distrust the girl and what she may try to pull. After all, who wants to get THAT phone call - you know... "Hey honey, I miss you - I love you too... we need to talk..." I don't feel she is over reacting at all. She is being honest with you and letting you know that she is uncomfortable with the situation. Even if nothing is going on, she will be sitting at home - worrying, fretting, and driving herself crazy just knowing that all it would take is one weak moment, one slip, one dream, one anything to make things totally change and destroy everything the two of you have. In my opinion, if you really cared and respected her, you wouldn't put yourself in a position like this. You are saying, "look at all the neat things we can do, a vacation and be comfortable, if I let this chick live with me!" And what she is saying is that she'd rather not take a vacation, and live on a strapped diet so long as you don't live with that chick. She loves you, she doesn't want to feel like she is sharing you. Show her you love her too, if you do.
Monday, November 7, 2011
my girlfriend doesn't want me to live with my other friend for the summer (girl). what should i do?
my girlfriend doesn't want me to live with my other friend for the summer (girl). what should i do?
im a 21 year old guy and ive been dating my girlfriend seriously for like 4 months, but we've been together for almost a year. anyways, i go to school but live by myself in a medium sized apartment. i like kinda need some money for this summer and next year so i want to sublet a room in my apartment to my friend who happens to be a girl. i totally dont think of Alexis that way and it would be just for 4 months while school was out. my girlfriend is going to be going back to home to Argentina for the summer and shes told me shes not okay with me living with another girl while shes gone. how can i make her see its just for the money and that NOTHING is going to happen. i really love my girlfriend and she says she loves me too. why would she trust me??
Singles & Dating - 2 Answers
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just have her get to know your friend as well as you do.
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Alright, one way to think of this situation, is to reverse it. How would you feel, if you were about to go out of town for the summer, and you found out she was shacking up with some dude, for the next four months, in the SUMMER of all times? Would you be okay with that, cause I sure as hell wouldn't. And men do give into seduction way easier then women do, what if that girl started liking you, and tried to make a move on you, the best of us men, have succumbed to seductresses before, and although you say you would never now, and don't think of her that way, sh*t happens. This is just a bad idea completely, and I don't know of any girls who would be cool with it, so just abandon it, if you still want to date this particular girl, cause I guarantee you won't be rather you actually cheat or not if you do this.
im a 21 year old guy and ive been dating my girlfriend seriously for like 4 months, but we've been together for almost a year. anyways, i go to school but live by myself in a medium sized apartment. i like kinda need some money for this summer and next year so i want to sublet a room in my apartment to my friend who happens to be a girl. i totally dont think of Alexis that way and it would be just for 4 months while school was out. my girlfriend is going to be going back to home to Argentina for the summer and shes told me shes not okay with me living with another girl while shes gone. how can i make her see its just for the money and that NOTHING is going to happen. i really love my girlfriend and she says she loves me too. why would she trust me??
Singles & Dating - 2 Answers
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just have her get to know your friend as well as you do.
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Alright, one way to think of this situation, is to reverse it. How would you feel, if you were about to go out of town for the summer, and you found out she was shacking up with some dude, for the next four months, in the SUMMER of all times? Would you be okay with that, cause I sure as hell wouldn't. And men do give into seduction way easier then women do, what if that girl started liking you, and tried to make a move on you, the best of us men, have succumbed to seductresses before, and although you say you would never now, and don't think of her that way, sh*t happens. This is just a bad idea completely, and I don't know of any girls who would be cool with it, so just abandon it, if you still want to date this particular girl, cause I guarantee you won't be rather you actually cheat or not if you do this.
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
My gf doesnt want me to live with my other (girl) friend for the summer?
My gf doesnt want me to live with my other (girl) friend for the summer?
im a 21 year old guy and ive been dating my girlfriend seriously for like 4 months, but we've been together for almost a year. anyways, i go to school but live by myself in a medium sized apartment. i like kinda need some money for this summer and next year so i want to sublet a room in my apartment to my friend who happens to be a girl. i totally dont think of Alexis that way and it would be just for 4 months while school was out. my girlfriend is going to be going back to home to Argentina for the summer and shes told me shes not okay with me living with another girl while shes gone. how can i make her see its just for the money and that NOTHING is going to happen. i really love my girlfriend and she says she loves me too. why would she trust me?? ***id make $2000 this summer if she stays
Singles & Dating - 6 Answers
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um i dont blame her. don't you any other friends that are guys you could give the room to
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DUDE! seriously think about what you are saying. Would you be alright with it if she was living with a man friend? you have to choose ,,, your girl or the money
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its just a girls thing she might not trust you since you've only been serious for 4 months but unless you've given her a reason not to trust you she needs to just suck it up and understand that you don't have feelings for this other girl or you can find a guy roommate just to make her happy
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NOTHING that you will say will make her change her mind. I know this for a fact. Sorry, but it's the truth.
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I wouldn't want my boyfriend with another girl either. I would try to figure out how to make more money to live by yourself or if you have to, live with a relative. If that doesn't work could your girlfriend move in with you and Alexis? Would you rather lose money or your girlfriend that you love?
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you could say that if you wanted to cheat you don't need to be living with the girl to make it happen... but that will probably get you into trouble lol. best bet is to just do everything you can to be reassuring about your relationship. over the summer when you're apart, write or call... email... however you keep in touch twice as often as you expected to. make sure she knows she's still your girl and you're thinking of her. my bf lives far from me, and i have no problem with him being around other girls because he always lets me know he loves me and is thinking of me. if you were to go more than a couple days without contacting her, she might feel upset. if you take the time to keep regular contact, she should be fine. it's probably gonna be a pain in the ass but spending 10 minutes to write her everyday will be worth it and she'll appreciate it.
im a 21 year old guy and ive been dating my girlfriend seriously for like 4 months, but we've been together for almost a year. anyways, i go to school but live by myself in a medium sized apartment. i like kinda need some money for this summer and next year so i want to sublet a room in my apartment to my friend who happens to be a girl. i totally dont think of Alexis that way and it would be just for 4 months while school was out. my girlfriend is going to be going back to home to Argentina for the summer and shes told me shes not okay with me living with another girl while shes gone. how can i make her see its just for the money and that NOTHING is going to happen. i really love my girlfriend and she says she loves me too. why would she trust me?? ***id make $2000 this summer if she stays
Singles & Dating - 6 Answers
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um i dont blame her. don't you any other friends that are guys you could give the room to
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DUDE! seriously think about what you are saying. Would you be alright with it if she was living with a man friend? you have to choose ,,, your girl or the money
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its just a girls thing she might not trust you since you've only been serious for 4 months but unless you've given her a reason not to trust you she needs to just suck it up and understand that you don't have feelings for this other girl or you can find a guy roommate just to make her happy
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NOTHING that you will say will make her change her mind. I know this for a fact. Sorry, but it's the truth.
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I wouldn't want my boyfriend with another girl either. I would try to figure out how to make more money to live by yourself or if you have to, live with a relative. If that doesn't work could your girlfriend move in with you and Alexis? Would you rather lose money or your girlfriend that you love?
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you could say that if you wanted to cheat you don't need to be living with the girl to make it happen... but that will probably get you into trouble lol. best bet is to just do everything you can to be reassuring about your relationship. over the summer when you're apart, write or call... email... however you keep in touch twice as often as you expected to. make sure she knows she's still your girl and you're thinking of her. my bf lives far from me, and i have no problem with him being around other girls because he always lets me know he loves me and is thinking of me. if you were to go more than a couple days without contacting her, she might feel upset. if you take the time to keep regular contact, she should be fine. it's probably gonna be a pain in the ass but spending 10 minutes to write her everyday will be worth it and she'll appreciate it.
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